The first impression is almost like your entire personality compressed into a five minute shot and you risk being stamped with a wrong label. I find that so unfair, because you find yourself carrying that weight for a long time.
And then i came across this at Antique mommy's.
It is a long video but do watch a brave 47 yr old contestent changing that first impression, unfazed by the laughter which greeted her. (click on the blue words to watch the video)
Sometimes, it pays to give someone a chance.
For those who missed the previous post, do watch this too...and keep those tissues handy...