Few days back, my son and I had decided to watch "The Guardians of The Galaxy". He got his mandatory bowl of popcorn, after confirming with me that I was not hungry and that I would not eat multiples of five popcorns at a time and eventually finish half his tub. He exaggerates, I have no clue where he gets that trait from!
We entered the audi, took our 3 D glasses and settled ourselves, cleaned the glasses with wipes, and got ready to watch Chris Pratt in action. and Baby Groot. (love that little creature, rooted teeny soul that he is)
Few minutes into the movie, I was pretty disappointed by the quality of the print. The images were blurry and the print quite dark. I poked my son once or twice to ask if his 3 D glasses were okay. Figured out from his impatient nodding of the head, that they were. I took one look at the filled seats to my left and resigned myself to watch the movie with my defective glasses at least till intermission. When I couldn't take it any longer, I channeled my inner ' crouching tiger, hidden dragon' spirit, muttered a series of "excuse me , so sorry", (who in the world booked our seats right in the middle of the row?) , and hobbled to the bored looking attendant, near the exit. Cornered him and in my perfect blend of an accusatory and a hurt, 'How could you fool me? ', tone, whispered, "these glasses are spoilt, please replace them."
The guy peered at the glasses, and then at me and then said "Erm..Maam, you've been watching the movie through your sunglasses."
Uhoh! I touched my head and sure enough, found the ugly square rimmed 3D glasses, perched unapologetically on my head. I grabbed my sun glasses back from the 'trying very hard not to laugh" attendant, and went hopping back sheepishly to my seat, with as much dignity as I could muster.
The son when he heard it , rolled his eyes and laughed : "Why am I not surprised, Amma?"
I've always been err, to put it politely, quite absentminded. I married a guy who's equally so. He's misplaced 3 sun glares, one of which he placed on the roof of his car and then drove away. He used to forget which grades the kids were in (I NEVER forget that!!) We've forgotten flights and luggage and lived to tell the tale.
I think that marriage to him has definitely given me more than two kids. It's increased my tendency to umm...forget. Thankfully, he seems to have toned down a bit, thereby balancing the family sanity scale. I,on the other hand, seem to be aiming for some doctorate in the science of forgetfulness.
There was this time when I opened the door of my parked car and sat down, only to see a stranger there. His jaw dropped. My eyes popped out. It happened to be someone else's car. He was too busy sweating(probably his wife was due back any minute) by which time I had made good my escape to my own car, where my driver (a necessity since a car in my control is always out of control) was hyperventilating because he thought I had lost my mind!! In my defense, it was not my fault, it was a white car, it seemed the same size , I just hadn't noticed it was from a different company.
This syndrome seems to have rubbed off on my driver too. The other day, after buying the week's groceries, I walked back to the car, dumped my packets on the seat, and had barely walked to the other side, when the car lurched forward. A long 5 minutes and 500 metres later, the car slowly reverses, back to a gaping me and a sheepish face pops out " I thought you were already sitting in the car".
Sigh, he thinks too much.
Three thoughts occurred to me.
1) So that's how it feels to be on the receiving end.
2) Goodness, could this absent mindedness be contagious?
3) Poor poor G!