tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5344181663524820770.post1826324492554625253..comments2023-09-23T04:40:48.053-07:00Comments on aalochane!: hey...looking good!!!aMushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14191649124291527517noreply@blogger.comBlogger29125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5344181663524820770.post-18596108660768102742008-02-04T00:48:00.000-08:002008-02-04T00:48:00.000-08:00A lovely post. What the person is should matter mo...A lovely post. <BR/><BR/>What the person is should matter more than how she/he looks. Frequently, handsome is as handsome does, but the woman is unfairly judged quite a lot by her looks.<BR/>But yeah, no matter what looks you are born with, it helps to be neatly turned out, and smelling good.. a very sensible post, Suma.Just Like Thathttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04156108159461377932noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5344181663524820770.post-58454422613430024412008-01-15T01:18:00.000-08:002008-01-15T01:18:00.000-08:00excellent post, I think its sad when people can't ...excellent post, I think its sad when people can't be happy with the way they look and the way they age, its only natural after all. I think also confidence as you say has a huge effect on how good you lookCrafty Green Poethttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02486633917197181851noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5344181663524820770.post-74803558917392423402008-01-08T15:51:00.000-08:002008-01-08T15:51:00.000-08:00Good things to think about here... I have all sort...Good things to think about here... I have all sorts of friends, plain ones, beautiful ones (by cultural and facial and proportional standards) and it's the ones that love themselves inside that really shine and are the ones I want to be around, regardless... looks begin to morph and fade into the background and I love the person they are...Leahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07101643429585271655noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5344181663524820770.post-44193350284114235022008-01-08T09:35:00.000-08:002008-01-08T09:35:00.000-08:00i like both external and internal beauty. but usua...i like both external and internal beauty. <BR/><BR/>but usually, if a person is beautiful inside, i end up liking the external too..Vineshhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13578673170981787471noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5344181663524820770.post-58520668958176457292008-01-08T03:18:00.000-08:002008-01-08T03:18:00.000-08:00Well I would love to agree on this. Beauty is not ...Well I would love to agree on this. Beauty is not skin deep but who does not love that aatractive packaging ? We all love it Right ?<BR/><BR/>howmuch ever we shout from the top of our voice "that looks does not matter" they do matter. Specially in the Indian Marriages. <BR/>It is very unfortunate still nobody sees how ugly is the boy but what matters for a boy is how much he is earning. <BR/><BR/Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5344181663524820770.post-21270246420195573872008-01-07T04:55:00.000-08:002008-01-07T04:55:00.000-08:00@pointblank...looking good is important..i think i...@pointblank...<BR/>looking good is important..i think i emphasised that enough...the point i wanted to bring out was the obsessing over beauty...some are naturally blessed and some have something attractive about them...so find out what makes you tick...your last sentence says it all!!aMushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14191649124291527517noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5344181663524820770.post-14810666753361271622008-01-07T04:34:00.000-08:002008-01-07T04:34:00.000-08:00ur post made me thinking. but then I would disagre...ur post made me thinking. but then I would disagree. Looking good is important, though it is not the single most imp thing. I feel so happy when I'm surrounded by beauty. Beautiful people, beautiful landscapes, interiors, clothes, shoes, jewellery all make me happy.But then just having a pretty face doesnt help either. I would say, celebrate the beauty around and within you! Never fret over it Pointblankhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14236961643105447595noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5344181663524820770.post-75690249156442673292008-01-07T00:35:00.000-08:002008-01-07T00:35:00.000-08:00@ solitaire,:) thanks ...i wish so too..@ just jen...@ solitaire,<BR/>:) thanks ...i wish so too..<BR/><BR/>@ just jen...<BR/>:) glad to c u here...<BR/><BR/>@ ziah...<BR/>i'm with you here...guess the soaps even with all their exaggerated scenes are trying to work their magic in this area...yes, its time for a change...but the gals need to show some spirit too :(aMushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14191649124291527517noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5344181663524820770.post-76962358849799796092008-01-06T21:46:00.000-08:002008-01-06T21:46:00.000-08:00I completely agree with you. In fact, a major prob...I completely agree with you. <BR/>In fact, a major problem arises for people who seek to marry through the "arranged" route. There is tremendous pressure on a girl, no matter how well placed, to be fair, slim, drop-dead gorgeous et al. I have a colleague who is fairly pretty and bawls her lungs out when a mother of an i-banker says "ladki thodi saavli hain, na?" and goes on to loom for a "fair" Sairekhahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01315402584142064271noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5344181663524820770.post-40983907142700421082008-01-05T21:48:00.000-08:002008-01-05T21:48:00.000-08:00Sigh!! I wish everyone would think like you; every...Sigh!! I wish everyone would think like you; everyone including those women who spent big bucks trying to look wonderful, and those men who judge women only based on their beauty.Solitairehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09751415960885943414noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5344181663524820770.post-9976992172639215922008-01-05T21:15:00.000-08:002008-01-05T21:15:00.000-08:00@ sandhya...looking good naturally, is important.....@ sandhya...<BR/>looking good naturally, is important...an dit pay sto be presentable...but obsessing with beauty is not!!...hmmm..u want to reach me on orkut? try searching for suma ...(with teh 3 dots) :)<BR/><BR/>@ CU...<BR/><BR/>bottom line, men like to look at pretty things, never mind how teh men themselves look....we don't ;)aMushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14191649124291527517noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5344181663524820770.post-38844560901349095352008-01-05T20:04:00.000-08:002008-01-05T20:04:00.000-08:00Oh my..me and my spellings !! need to change my gl...Oh my..me and my spellings !! need to change my glasses looks like..sorry Suma<BR/>TC<BR/>CUCompassion Unlimittedhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14502484998131301949noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5344181663524820770.post-36368696947616247182008-01-05T09:16:00.000-08:002008-01-05T09:16:00.000-08:00Also..why the fuss..presentable packaging is impor...Also..why the fuss..presentable packaging is important for any body a nd anything !!But the strange thing is that men generally believe this applies to women only..there lies the problem..when the table gets turned then all hell breaks lose,isnt it<BR/>TC<BR/>CUCompassion Unlimittedhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14502484998131301949noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5344181663524820770.post-8102042242992448272008-01-05T07:06:00.000-08:002008-01-05T07:06:00.000-08:00Wow. It feels good to be a guy. There is hardly an...Wow. It feels good to be a guy. There is hardly any pressure to look good. Or at least, to conform to a thumb rule, which thankfully does not exist. <BR/>Not so much for the "fairer sex", I see. That term is a double-edged sword, really.Spunky Monkeyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06483736497862498849noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5344181663524820770.post-91995744928451785412008-01-04T22:19:00.000-08:002008-01-04T22:19:00.000-08:00hi suma.This is d fact that inner beauty is more i...hi suma.<BR/><BR/>This is d fact that inner beauty is more important but sometimes even i believe that looking pretty is also matters.........<BR/><BR/>Anyways, i have searched you on orkut bt cant search you. Actually just have a curiousity to see the lady who can write so well.Sandhyahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01789698032556673693noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5344181663524820770.post-12832404363171316342008-01-04T20:37:00.000-08:002008-01-04T20:37:00.000-08:00@ Cu...self esteem is very important...how else ca...@ Cu...<BR/>self esteem is very important...how else can you survive?...different thinking cap...hmmm..i wonder :)<BR/><BR/>@ nsk,...<BR/>i think u missed the whole point...u mean to say u talk to people only if u like the way they look?<BR/><BR/>@ Cu...<BR/>:)... wanted to check the veracity of your story...<BR/><BR/>@ ps..<BR/>I knew you would understand...compliments are fine but going beyond aMushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14191649124291527517noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5344181663524820770.post-42372824385713277312008-01-04T11:36:00.000-08:002008-01-04T11:36:00.000-08:00I tried searching Suma in Singapore in orkut but n...I tried searching Suma in Singapore in orkut but no results<BR/>:(Jayahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05053043951887070129noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5344181663524820770.post-34243813149627600342008-01-04T10:30:00.000-08:002008-01-04T10:30:00.000-08:00Very well written TA. Who has the time these days ...Very well written TA. Who has the time these days for inner beauty. It is all artificial and superficiality still that counts. Where as the main essence of life is to understand within and grow.Sumanahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16894195422278069398noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5344181663524820770.post-20632269464142131242008-01-04T10:21:00.000-08:002008-01-04T10:21:00.000-08:00So well said!! I feel like standing up and applaud...So well said!! I feel like standing up and applauding (except that considering it is 11:47 pm in the night and if I did it right now it might wake up not only the sleeping kids, but also the neighbours who might be finally convinced I have lost it!)<BR/>Yes--I agree so much with what you said so well. Many a time I have had men (always men--never a woman) messaging me and asking me if it is Preeti Shenoyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01626823872300694608noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5344181663524820770.post-20507961911271963752008-01-04T08:49:00.000-08:002008-01-04T08:49:00.000-08:002 prats...now that's a beautiful lady speaking wit...2 prats...<BR/>now that's a beautiful lady speaking with loads of attitude...<BR/><BR/>@ preethi...<BR/>esp skin color...:)and you said it better than my loooong post...<BR/><BR/>@ rambler...<BR/>me taking offense at compliments....no way :)<BR/><BR/>@ romila...<BR/>rightly so...<BR/><BR/>@ rayshma...<BR/>i have, that's a saving grace , all and sundry don't read the scraps, with the new settings.aMushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14191649124291527517noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5344181663524820770.post-17420623876228766702008-01-04T08:34:00.000-08:002008-01-04T08:34:00.000-08:00@Thinking aloudBetween the years,its past 1230 the...@Thinking aloud<BR/>Between the years,its past 1230 there,dont you remember my story on moondram pirai..lol<BR/>TC<BR/>CUCompassion Unlimittedhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14502484998131301949noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5344181663524820770.post-83941546330217728412008-01-04T08:32:00.000-08:002008-01-04T08:32:00.000-08:00Do men take care of their beauty? Makes me think a...Do men take care of their beauty? Makes me think and say 'No'(atleast with me).<BR/><BR/>It may happen if women promise that they will visit a men's orkut profile and scrap "Want to be friend?"Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11373728468224025831noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5344181663524820770.post-15809239082135840712008-01-04T08:24:00.000-08:002008-01-04T08:24:00.000-08:00So Suma this New year you have put on a different ...So Suma this New year you have put on a different thinking cap !!<BR/>So as the saying goes..what is mainly important is between the ears and years and not between head to toe !!<BR/>Nice expressed blog..guess we can look forward to more of these<BR/><BR/>My new year..I normally go to bed by 930 ..So it was the same this year too..lol<BR/>TC<BR/>CUCompassion Unlimittedhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14502484998131301949noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5344181663524820770.post-12792028999364739032008-01-04T06:52:00.001-08:002008-01-04T06:52:00.001-08:00Beautiful post :) Beauty within definitely surface...Beautiful post :) Beauty within definitely surfaces out in the face and makes it prettier.Jayahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05053043951887070129noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5344181663524820770.post-45040607146468175472008-01-04T06:52:00.000-08:002008-01-04T06:52:00.000-08:00with u on this one... u've put it across very well...with u on this one... u've put it across very well. i guess there's too much emphasis on "physical" beauty these days... ignoring the 'substance' that makes us so unique. <BR/><BR/>and heyy, if u wanna avoid those arbit requests on orkut and still do what u wish, just change ur settings. u can make ur scrapbook, album et al private so only those on ur frenz list can view them! :)rayshmahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09702175811120928581noreply@blogger.com